Recently, a lot of passport bros have ended up in the news for dying, spending all their money, or ending up in unhappy relationships. In some ways, it’s sad. We want to see men win. On the other hand, it serves a lot of these people right. You see, when you’re in your early 20s, it’s easy to fall down the Passport Bro rabbit hole. The guys look smart because they’re arbitraging their money nicely. They are smart in those respects, but that’s pretty much where it ends. A lot of passport bros are simply too old to be acting the way they do. I’m not sure what made them like this. Society? The fact that they hate women? The amount of time and effort a lot of Passport Bros spend focusing on cold approaching, game, and anti-feminist topics is shameful. These guys are dangerous, and they’re extraordinarily unhelpful. Passport bro YouTube and TikTok creators have opened the floodgates. Millions of insecure men are making their way from America to the 3rd world, aged between 35 and 65, pushing their way through life as bachelors. They get to ball out, but it’s honestly pretty cringe. When it goes wrong, these men look like creeps, or worse, end up in some sticky situations. That being said, being a Passport Bro is overall worthwhile. Life in the US and Canada is toxic, and people are too disconnected from each other. Money and social media have corrupted marriage and friendships. A lot of people are just too focused on weird stuff. To top it off, everything is really expensive. Dating overseas by contrast is just chill. The girls are hot, and they make for really good company. You’ll be able to afford to buy stuff too. It won’t be hard if you can start a business that makes sense. So, here are some steps you can take to avoid becoming a cringe, insecure Passport Bro as you age. Because this is a worthwhile move, but it needs to be done correctly.
Make sure you have some dating experiences when you’re young
I’m anti social. A lot of people say I withdraw far too much and avoid people a lot when I’m uncomfortable. it’s true. I’m not the type of person to put myself out there. But I still made sure to have some dating experiences when I was young, and I’m glad I did. I’m focused on money now, but I won’t be some 30 year old who’s never kissed a woman he was really attracted to. If you want to avoid being a cringe passport bro, you have to have some real life experiences. 18 to 21 is a good time to experiment with a bit of partying. Just don’t get into drugs.
Make sure you spend your 20s focused on making money
This should be obvious. You don’t want to reach the age of 30 not having built anything. Spend your 20s working your ass off, so that you don’t have to puff your chest out amongst your peers, or try too hard to flex in poor countries. You don’t need to be super rich, but you want to make enough money so that you’re proud of yourself and your accomplishments. You don’t want to be the guy throwing USD in the air at the Colombian strip club. It’s sad.
If you’re super rich or super attractive and not pulling at home, you’re the problem
This doesn’t mean that you’re parents are rich. But if you’re a successful man in the west you should be able to attract hot girls in the West. It doesn’t take much to attract hot girls in my country. If you make between $40,000 and $80,000 before your late 30s you have pretty much unlimited options. Women definitely will want to stick with you if they think you’re operating in this income bracket. I’m a poor country, but a decent amount of guys can make that if they’re focused. It’s like making $200k in America. If you’re making and spending high six figures or more and can’t pull… Yeah. This also relates to my next point.
Move to a country that suits your income levels
If you’re upper middle class in the United States, you don’t need to move to Cambodia or Ethiopia or Nigeria or Jamaica. It’s honestly kind of cringe if you do that, because you’re going to find yourself in the top 1% of people wealth-wise, without having earned it. Unless you’re super young, you’ll always be disconnected from the average person. Instead, move somewhere where your social status improves slightly, but that has better quality of life at the upper-middle-class level than the United States. This is pretty much everywhere that isn’t super poor. Put boots on the ground and explore your future home before you move. It should be easy to tell what is and isn’t too poor, considering what you’re used to.
Don’t hate women
I wrote another article about hating women, and how to stop doing that. It’s really important that you don’t hate women if you’re going to move to another country and date people. A lot of passport bros, if they’re anything like the ones online, hate almost all women. I remember when I was younger, I used to spend a lot of time on Twitter. The stuff that was being said was crazy. Nowadays, I’ve cut out all of that content, and life couldn’t be better. I feel nothing but love and compassion for most people, although I don’t have a lot of trust. I don’t worry about random Western women who I don’t like. I’m focused on making this money so that I can sit on a beach with some girls in Brazil, or something. Bad vibes are bad vibes. Heal before you move. Working hard and watching your dreams come to fruition usually does the trick. Hard to be mad at women when your hard work is paying off.
Make sure you look good
I’m not tall or super buff, but I’ve been blessed with a wiry build and a decent looking face. Women care about looks. You can’t complain about a country’s dating scene if you aren’t at least a 6 or a 5 with money. Being foreign should help you a lot too. If the people around you speak a different language/dialect and you’re getting rejected, it’s on you. Being a foreigner helps.
Understand why you’re going overseas
You want to go overseas so that you can minimize the amount of time you spend on making money, and so that you can have a family. The more time you spend making money, the more time you’ve wasted, as far as I’m concerned. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to spend a lot of time on this stuff. You just want to go somewhere where there’s a decent fertility rate, and you feel as if you can attract the type of woman you want. You want to be in a place that suits your lifestyle. If you like reading books and hiking, living in Panama City could be tolerable. A place like Tokyo doesn’t make a ton of sense (unless there’s something about the scenery that I don’t know).
Going overseas and dating is clearly the right move. If you don’t do it, you’re likely going to struggle with women who are “not feminine” or whatever. Odds are, they aren’t responding because there’s no point. Even if they did, would you guys be able to afford a fun, comfortable, and healthy lifestyle? Maybe, maybe not. When people don’t see a future, hookup culture and loneliness take root. If you go overseas, you can live a middle-class life without breaking your back, because the dollar goes twice as far in most developing countries as it does in the US or Canada. This means that educated people can start their careers in countries like India and the Philippines and end up creating good lives for themselves if they’re consistent. You don’t need to be a digital nomad for living overseas to pay dividends, which is one of the many reasons why so many people earning US dollars are clamoring to move. Just don’t make it lame.
Thanks for paying attention.
