If you’re looking to make a connection or date, don’t use dating apps. They’re not good, and they aren’t worth your time. It might seem like I’m being really hardline, perhaps even defeatist, but it’s true. You just shouldn’t use dating apps. They won’t help you, and they hurt everyone in the long run.
There are too many guys
The ratio is 2:1. You can get noticed if you’re handsome, but there’s absolutely no point in engaging in any of this nonsense. Why would you want to smash and endless stream of 4s and 6s? You’re only pulling top notch women if you’re really handsome, and that’s not most men. There are too many guys on dating apps for them to be worthwhile.
You can just walk up to real women
And literally say “Hi” to them and talk to them. It’s way easier than online dating, and you should be able to tell if you get along with the women you select after a few hours/days of conversing. If we’re talking about first impressions, you should have a rough idea of whether a woman is cool within minutes.
You’re not selecting from the best pool of women
What kind of women are online, posting mildly sexy pictures hoping some guy will swipe? What kind of women meet up with random strangers online? Saying “but it’s everyone” doesn’t negate my point. If you’re dating online, you’re basically bottom feeding.
Meeting/managing relationships with new women gets tiring
This is the main issue with the women of today’s age. If you’re meeting lots of new women via means such as online dating, you’re probably meeting them at a rate that makes you tired of them. Managing these relationships isn’t worthwhile in the long run.
Good girls get chewed up and spat out
Think about it. Dating apps are trauma machines for good, naive people. Your contributing to women feeling devalued and men feeling lonely. The only one who wins is some random hot guy.
Annoying women get gassed up by dating apps
Thankfully, these are only the worst type of women. But it does happen, and pretty much all women are oblivious to the male dating app experience. If you’re on a dating app, you’re just inflating the market for other men in your area. You should either be cold approaching or working your hardest to move.
Passport bro is a better solution
By passport bro, I mean move to a reasonable country, preferably one with a decent fertility rate. If you can do this, you’re going to find that you have a much happier life than if you master dating apps. I used the term passport bro, but you don’t have to move to a poor country. An American who makes a well-planned move to Luxembourg can probably meet a beautiful woman and live a much happier, healthier, and wealthier life if he wants to. It’s all about knowing how to spend your money properly.
Get off the dating apps. Delete them. Find something else to do. They’re the biggest waste of time. Even worse than Pornhub from a productivity standpoint. You’re not going to get laid or meet the girl of your dreams using them, you’re only making your own life worse. Literally any activity is more productive.
Thanks for paying attention.
