It’s pretty common to hate women. People don’t like to admit it but look at what’s been happening in the media and across the globe. Both men and women have their own gendered movements, and they’re getting pretty wackadoodle. Someone tweeted “your body, my choice” after Donald Trump won the US presidential election. The tweet got millions of views and thousands of people seemed to like it. I’m not a huge fan of abortion, but this was rapey, and the fact that so many people liked the Tweet shows that there are a lot of men who hate women. Even if you’re anti-abortion, why rub it in? Because you hate women, that’s why.
Fixing that hatred is important. Life isn’t easy when you’re hateful, and raging out all the time gets corny as you age. Being angry also distracts you from being productive. If you want to win, a bit of anger can help you. But most people can’t channel it properly. Most men and lesbians need to become less angry at women in order to reach their full potential, in my opinion. Here’s how you can make it happen.
Realize that there are different levels of anger/hate
If you’re on incel forums, your hate levels are pretty high. If you’re heartbroken over something recent, you might just be pissed off on a subconscious level. Acknowledge your feelings and realize that wherever you are on the spectrum, you need healing. Realize that if you’re on the far side of the spectrum, you need a lot of healing. Weeks of therapy or introspection. New friends. It won’t be as easy for you as it will be for most if you’re a total incel.
Spend a bit of time not chilling/partying with women
Just sit back and don’t stress people out with your bullshit. If you’re a really angry person, this is imperative. The wrong move can lead to prison very quickly if you’re the type of fly off the handle.
Spend that time learning about the world
The more you learn about the world, the less you hate most other groups. The same applies to women. This can take a lot of time. It often takes a decade of reading to get some good background knowledge of the world. Some things might make you hate women in the short run but keep learning. I guarantee that the closer you get to the bottom of the issues, the less you care about random gender war nonsense. You’ll also end up supporting a lot of pro-woman stuff.
Block out woman hating media
This is probably the hardest thing to do if you’re a young man. The guys making anti woman media are sneaky. Some of them frame their videos as self-improvement content and then try to suck you into a rabbit hole of craziness. Andrew Tate is an obvious one. He’s the only one I’m willing to promote on this blog at the moment. It’s important to be aware of him and how rich he is, because he is a prime example of how proper content and sales-funnel planning can make you rich. But he’s a psycho. He openly created a crime manual in which he says “women are stupid and don’t know how to pay taxes”. I suppose he could be seen as an idiot savant in the world of business and crime…
But either way, cut these internet freaks out of your content sphere. Woman hating media is really bad, and it makes you crazy. If you sit and watch that stuff all day, you’re likely to turn into a terrible human being. Or at least, you’ll say some off the wall stuff that will put sane women off.
Block out nonsense self improvement content
If you want to learn something properly, read. Even if it takes you forever and you’re forced to come up with some type of convoluted notetaking scheme to get it into your brain, you’re better off reading about it and figuring it out. Academic subjects can be supplemented with video lectures. Obviously, if you want to watch a cool documentary, you can. But don’t confuse general knowledge with mastery. Read. I’ve had the misfortune of learning about content creation and the self-improvement space over the last 3 years, and these people are often either generic, or sleazy as far as I can tell. Maybe it’s just my feed, but I get a bunch of sleazes. I’m glad I did, because these guys pushed me to read more. Even when self-improvement content isn’t harmful, it often creates a transactional mindset. “If I get this jacked, I can get this many women.” This reduces women to objects and makes you furious if and when you turn out to be wrong.
Now go talk to women
It should be ok. I meet new women every time I go outside. Just don’t get into the sexual stuff. Talk. Talk to women of all ages about random stuff. If you like some of the women in your family’s friends you can start there. Do this for a few months and you’ll probably have women doing all sorts of cool stuff for you and speaking highly of you. You’ll also have women you like and respect in your life. I’m not going to try to teach people how to date. Women seem to come naturally to me, and I’m batshit insane and avoidant. I’ve gotten so many girl’s numbers and never spoken to them. I know nothing about that dating stuff. But do talk to random women if you want to like them. Especially after you know a lot of stuff.
Realize when there are stupid/evil/mean women around you
Once you have a solid base, you can start pruning. I recently was thinking about this subject in relation to the women I’ve known over the course of my life. A lot of them were people who really do give people a bad impression of women, whether it’s through lying, promiscuity, or whatever type of nonsense. Don’t tolerate these women. Even if they aren’t terrible people, don’t tolerate people who annoy you unless they’re paying you. It makes no sense at all, and cutting shitty women out of your life gives you more time to hang out with the cool ones.
When I think about a lot of women I’ve known in the past, I sometimes regret being so angry with them. But then I remember what they were like and realize that if I didn’t immediately get rid of them, I should have. There are lot of shitty women out there, just as there are shitty men. Unapologetically pruning prevents long term resentments from growing. I stopped talking to the last really annoying woman I’ve known about 5 months ago. It was a great decision. Treating people as individuals is an essential step to destroying resentments.
Let go of any weird outside dating standards or internal hang ups
If you have the internalized belief that all white women are going to reject you for being Indian (common) or that all east Asian women are going to reject you for being black (also common), you’re going to hate women. Who wouldn’t? Just don’t buy into this stuff. It doesn’t matter if you have a higher success rate with one group or race when dating, it’s a dark road when you start stereotyping random women.
You also don’t want to be dating women that you don’t want to date. Date who you’re attracted to. Don’t let your friends or family peer pressure you into finding certain people attractive. This is how you end up full of resentment. You also don’t want to date someone just because you’re lonely. If you’re lonely, I recommend friends, family, and the strip club at worst. Don’t be unreasonable with your dating standards, but don’t just date anybody. Think about it. If some woman who you barely liked were to reject you, you would be beside yourself with irritation. If you get the girl, you’ll have a worse ability to form a bond, and when you break up you won’t associate women with true love and fun. You’ll see hanging out with them as a chore or heavy lifting. Hang out with the women you want to.
Hating women seems to be pretty common in today’s world. Probably about as common or more common than say… cocaine use, to compare it to another bad habit. If you look online, it seems like everyone hates women. It’s kind of the popular thing to do, be an incel. In reality it’s somewhere in between, and you don’t have to participate. It feels better if you don’t participate. You’ll also get more women if you don’t participate. I just got a girlfriend who’s hot and more than 20 years older than me, and I’m working on getting a second in my age group. Some girl left me her number at the fast-food place, and I lost the piece of paper even though she was hot. Women are nice to me, and I’m happier than when I was in my late teens and early 20s. I work hard, live life, and ignore retarded stuff and people. In my opinion, life couldn’t be better.
Thanks for paying attention.
