Right now, I’m basically an average guy. No college degree—yet. I live in a decent home in a poor country, and I work hard. I’ve got some things going for me, but the results aren’t crystal clear yet. Life’s uncertain. It gets lonely. But I’m building—both a business and a degree. I’m betting on myself. Still, by global standards, I’m pretty average… maybe a little below average in income. And that’s the hard truth for a lot of people around the world.
1. Living with Uncertainty
Being average means living with uncertainty. You don’t know what your future holds, whether it’s financially, socially, or globally. You’re not in control yet. You know you’re capable, but it feels like others are always more advanced, more connected, more confident.
2. Quiet Regrets
I don’t live with deep regrets—but there are moments I wish I had optimized sooner. The world punishes hesitation. If you don’t figure it out early, it’ll take years to recover. Average lives are full of missed opportunities and quiet what-ifs.
3. Boring, Often Thankless Work
If you’re average, chances are you’re either doing boring work or building something that hasn’t paid off yet. Either way, you’re grinding. Most of us aren’t passionate about the work—we do it because we have to, not because we want to.
4. Wasted Time, Waiting Around
Being broke often means wasting time—on errands, on waiting, on figuring out basic logistics others can afford to solve with money. You lose productivity not from laziness, but from inefficient systems and lack of resources.
5. Dating and Relationships Are Harder
Starting a business is a gamble, and in the short term, it hurts your dating life. You may have time, but without income, your options are limited. Long-term, I believe business wins—but early on, it’s a lonely road.
6. Temptation to Settle or Numb Out
When the journey gets tough, it’s easy to check out: debt, alcohol, distractions. You wonder if it’s worth continuing. That’s the trap. Being average comes with a very real risk of sinking into denial and giving up on growth.
7. Don’t Accept Average—Design Your Escape
Being average is a choice—at least for those with time, health, and internet access. Create, build, and find your purpose. Work toward freedom. It’s possible. With discipline and focus, you can build a life far better than what most people accept.
8. Above-Average Takes Above-Average Effort
You don’t need to be a genius. But if you’re honest and willing to work harder than most, you can break out. It hurts at first. It’s slow. But it works. Especially if you start while you’re young and still have energy and hope.
Final Thoughts: Choose to Be More
We live in a global, winner-take-most world. Being average isn’t just inconvenient—it’s dangerous. Talent is helpful. Luck plays a part. But consistency, effort, and strategy can get you out. Don’t waste the window. Don’t wait too long.
Thanks for reading.
