If you’re an American man looking to move overseas, you need to be aware of the fact that you’re probably a mark to women overseas. Even the nice girls probably see you as a bit of a simp. This doesn’t mean that they all look down on you or only want you for your money. But American men have a worldwide reputation for spending on women. I wanted to talk about why, so that American men looking to move, live, and date overseas can be aware of the state of the world and act accordingly. Here’s why you guys (us, I have an American accent) are seen as simps.
High Incomes
This is obviously the main reason American guys are seen as simps. They are rich, by global standards. When you’re rich, it’s hard not to become a bit of simp. Normal things become less enjoyable for you. If you can’t share money, you will struggle to find companionship for the activities in which you engage. If you make good money, prepare to simp a little. It’s a natural part of life.
High debt levels
This is a fault of the banking system, and it really does lead to “hoeflation”. The US has high consumer debt levels. Any and all male simp tendencies are amplified by the fact that men in America can bury themselves in debt in order to impress women. When you factor criminals, debt, and trust fund babies all together, the average fiscally responsible male has little or no spending power in the eyes of women.
The welfare state
The fact that we subsidize the poor, disabled, newly migrated, and unhealthy people in America is a good thing. But it does render money less valuable. So American men have to simp more than normal in order to lead with their wallets. They do just that, and the welfare state continues to exist. The tendency to overpay is noticeable overseas, as there is no welfare state.
Sugar Daddy/Feminist/Hookup Culture
Americans are very sexually liberated in urban areas. Outside of Europe, most of the world is more conservative. Hookup culture is barely a thing in Latin America and and only a bit more prevalent in the Caribbean. People are far more likely to stick with each other. So if you’re throwing money around, you’re going to look like a simp.
Celebrity worship
The United States used to be the main producer of media across the world. Things have changed. So now, America has lost influence, but American men are still programmed go worship female celebrities in a way that other cultures of men weren’t. This leads to a boatload of online simping. American men are the worst on this front, and a lot of it has to do with the fact that they deify women. Celebrity worship is positively correlated with hoeflation.
Single parent households
Single parent households are oftentimes a necessity for parents to keep their health and sanity. But people who grow up with single mothers are different. They’re overly attached, deify women, and often lack emotional resilience. This leads to lots of simping. Men from single parent households know how to take care of women and worship them. This works only for good looking men. Average and ugly men end up simping.
Heavy Work Culture/Lack of Emotional Awareness
Americans work hard and play hard. Everyone around the world knows that. But this often comes at the expense of family and friendship. Emotional awareness is central to attracting women without money. If you can’t talk to women, money greases the wheels of society. Useless finanical endeavoursAmerica unfortunately has become decadent. A lot of money is made in the financial system, and in government. Greed is a powerful force, and a lot of people are corrupt. People at the “top end” of American society are often doing things that don’t matter and aren’t helpful for advancing human life. They get away with it for now because the United States is a very rich country.
Tip: Still move overseas, but choose wisely
The American empire is losing ground to other countries. It’s kind of random which countries are succeeding and which ones aren’t. But if you pick the right country to move to overseas, you will find yourself in competitive environments where attracting women is both more fun and easier than the United States. Moving overseas is still the move. It’s just not as easy for Americans to get laid overseas anymore. Times are changing and the rest of the world is improving.
Tip: Move to an up and coming country for your bloodline
My country, if you include the informal economy, likely has a GDP per capita of $13,000 annually. This is a large increase from the $9,000 that it was before. Ive had to work my butt off to keep up with the average person. Starting a business has also been a massive risk. But the hard worl has been good for me. I personally think you sbould move to an up and coming country and try to keep up, for the sake of human progress.
Tip: Be Humble
The whole world thinks we are entitled people in America. You can complain about it, but that’s reality. If you are humble and down to earth, women won’t use you for money. Or at leadt, it’s far less likely. Showing off always makes you look like a simp.
Look good
Women like attractive, good looking men. If you have the chance between increasing your income and looking good and are already doing well, you’re going to want to choose to look good. After a certain point of comfort, being in shape beats being rich.
Take time to smell the roses
If you spend time with women, they will become comfortable with you, and you may earn their affection. The more time you spend around a woman as a good looking man, the less you have to simp. Take time to smell the roses so that you don’t become a trick.
Build real friendships
After living overseas for a bit, a lot of the reason Americans don’t have very happy lives is due to the fact that people don’t see each other as people anymore. They judge each other based on material possessions, amongst other things. This is less the case overseas. It takes longer to make friends, but the friends you make tend to be more worthwhile and long lasting, provided you’re doing the right things.
Polygamy is possible, but prioritize family
If you want multiple partners, the trick is simple. Raise your bargaining power and be upfront. It’s hard, but it’s what you need to do unless you’re really good looking and personable or wanting to simp. Or maybe you tell a bunch of lies and are ok with juggling a bunch of potential headaches. This is becoming rarer in today’s world.
American excellence has had some great results. America is a world leader in science, technology, and business. But American culture is a bit warped now, and lack of balance has consequences. American men are known across the world for being simps, and this can be a disadvantage when dating. But if you’re aware, smart, and a real person, you will be able to overcome both your image and life situation. Deoending on who you are, what you look like, and what you do for a living, there’s somewhere where you can blend in and have fun. Make the move and be aware of the pitfalls discussed in this article. You should be ok if you use your brain.
Thanks for paying attention.
