If you’re a man who’s looking to date and do stuff, realize there’s no point in leading with your wallet or trying to meet women’s financial expectations. I know it sounds counterintuitive given the other things I have written on this site. But leading with your wallet in order to impress women doesn’t work.
IG/Romance/The Media Makes Women Delusional
It’s unfortunate, but it’s true. Most women have no understanding of income percentiles, because all they see are delusional portrayals of billionaires. They also are spoonfed unrealistic ideas about travel. If you try to live the Instagram travel life lifestyle, you are guaranteed to go broke, even if you have $1-2M in the bank. Flying around the world costs money and should only really be done in extreme situations. Satisfying even the average woman’s dating expectations will bankrupt people. It’s a losing battle.
Really rich guys have no incentive to committ
When every girl is on the menu, there’s no point. This means that a lot of women end up being disloyal and mentally damaged if they go for rich guys. Trying to meet women’s financial expectations sets you up as a target. You’re looking like a fool amongst a terrible dating pool.Are you going to have kids? If you want to have kids, then why are you looking to date someone who wants you to be blowing money? If she has financial expectations, she needs to make money of her own. If she’s a baddie just run game.
Make enough money to live somewhere good
This is the main deal. You want to earn enough of a living that you can live in a good, nice place. Nobody who’s really balling wants to stay in some hole forever. This is why a lot of the members of the elite of poor countries have houses in the West. Right now the nice places are the rich places, and there are a few up-and-comers. Where you feel best will depend on your income level, how location independent you are, and your race.
Follow your passions
Most people are passionate about things that women like. If you follow your passions, you should be able to find more common ground with women than if you waste your time hoarding money. Once you can move to a place that’s good and be at least upper middle class, you should start following your passions.
Make the world a better place
This is how you get status without becoming a target, and it’s a lost art. Making the world a better place is how you make women like you without throwing money around or giving fake compliments. If you’re involved in helping the world, you’re also filtering out people who are brainrotted by social media.
Look good and cold approach
If you want to attract women, this is honestly probably more important than making good money. Like it or not, we subsidize poor decision makers in society. A top 10% guy who cold approaches is going to beat the top 1% recluse all day. Make money for yourself. If you want to be a manwhore, do it by talking to women.Your fortunes can changeAnd if you aren’t around the people who helped you build, you are going to find yourself alone. Make money for your own sake, not for the sake of attracting women.
The harder it is to live, the worse the dating pool
Hoeflation applies most in places that are hard to live in. Hot girls don’t like to struggle. If you’re somewhere where it’s hard to live, make a plan to get out and get married somewhere else ASAP. Don’t spend too much time worrying about what women in your home area are doing. Worry about what the comfy, smart, and happy women in your desired location are doing.ReligionThose who believe in God are the most likely people to have families nowadays. The modern world is simply too distracting. If you want to have a family, religion is the main container for that.
High earning women
If you aren’t a totally soft man, you should consider dating a high earning woman. High earning women are sane and smart, a lot of the time. The only issue is that they work a lot. If you can find a woman who makes good money and is attractive and has a solid work life balance, you won. Sexy babymommasThis is the way to go if you’re just throwing money around because you’re super rich. Dating the hottest women possible is the wave if you can afford it. Just make sure the women are actually sexy and worth it. Babymomma culture is an unfortunate aspect of modern life, but it is highly incentivized. If you’re rich, consider this might be your future.Life is short, go for looksSo assume that you will either become relgious or have a lot of babymommas. Life is short. Date the women of your dreams and don’t worry. If you have money, use it to grease the wheels, but don’t allow yourself to be disrespected.
The catch? – Financially Stable = Top 20% net worth
And even then. People who spend a lot will likely need to be in the top 5-10%. So basically, if you can spend small amounts of money and remain comfortable, you are ahead of a lot of men. Run the numbers and don’t let women shame or fool you. You can be an extremely exceptional man just by being normal and running your own business.
Generally speaking, where you live and how you earn money are going to have a much bigger impact on your happiness than simply making lots of it, once you’re not in poverty. Don’t spend time simping and trying to meet women’s financial expectations. Instead, spend time looking to create the best lifestyle for yourself. Oftentimes this means starting a reliable business and finding a solid point of comfort with regards to income. It can be a long and hard road depending on where you’ve gone.
Thanks for paying attention.
